By saying the things we want to say both to individuals

By saying the things we want to say both to individuals as well as creating a guide for our final wishes, would be the best possible gift we could leave for our family. Loss is so overwhelming, even more so when you don't know the best way to honor those you love so dearly yet never had the opportunity or didn't breach the subject of "what if, or if I die....". This would not only answer all those questions, it will go far beyond the celebration of life and carry the family through the first few years after you are gone.